Something Unusual-- But worth discussing

i don't know whether these things to be discussed or not what i keep on thinking about it.i have already discussed many a times with my close friends but this thing isn't allowing me to live my life without it.It is something you going to make fun of me. I just read the famous words from Steve jobs so gathered the courage to pen down it. The words inspired me from Steve jobs "Your time is limited,so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important,have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.They somehow already know what you truly want to become.Everything else is secondary".
'You've got to find what you love .
The topic i want to discuss is long lasting debate, it may look weird to many of you. "how transparent you want relation to be with your partner". We have already discussed for 10 hours on this topic and still searching the things that could help us out of this.Before start thinking about it just answer these questions or scenarios..
You had a girl friend or boyfriend and this relation involved each and everything that could happen among couple.

1) Will you tell your new partner about your past ?.
Your answer will be ," of course, yes".

you and your partner going out for shopping and you see a boy/girl very attractive

and a thought "to sleep with that boy/girl" came to your mind. Just a thought for few seconds.

2)Will you share that with your partner ?.

Confused!

3)Would you like to or will you be able to share every damn thought that comes in your

mind with your partner?. I know that's a bombshell.